A Drunken Night

I would love to give you all of the details of last night’s spanking, but I can’t remember it all.  My husband and I went out last night to a bar with some friends and then we all came back to the house for a few more drinks.  I barely ever drink in excess and needless to say, I was rather intoxicated. . .actually, I was rather intoxicated before we even left the bar.

I’m not sure how it started, but a few days prior my friend and I got into a conversation about some of the things we try to get our men into and the topic of spanking came up.  Apparently, we share a lot of the same interests.  My blog was also mentioned and I ended up giving her the link so she could read about some of the things my husband and I get into.  She told me later that she was very captivated by my blog and read the entire thing in one night, so she was well versed on our lifestyle by the time we went out last night.  In my intoxicated state, I mentioned to my husband that I had given her the link to my blog and she knew about everything.  He took it better than I had expected, he was fine with it.

This is where my memory get’s a little fuzzy.  Every time my friend caught me saying something I shouldn’t, she would give me this look as if to say, “better behave yourself!”  and I would smile.  My husband even said something to imply that he would spank me right in front of them, I can’t remember exactly what he said, but I remember I was embarrassed and felt myself blush.  My friend smiled about that as well.

After our guests left, I did end up getting a rather severe spanking, but I can’t remember how we lead up to that point or what exactly the spanking was for.  (Don’t tell my husband that!)  I remember him bending me over the kitchen sink while he undid my belt and took down my pants and panties.  I can’t remember if he started with his hand or the belt, but I do know that he used both while I was in that position.  He also put my butt plug in my bottom while I was in that position, but I can’t remember if that was done before or after the spanking.

My husband then lowered me to my knees while he made me gag on his manhood.  I can’t tell you how long I did this, but I fell like he was fucking my throat for quite sometime.   After he sprayed his seed into my mouth and I had swallowed every drop, he guided me to the couch.  He had my knees on the cushions and my elbows on the back with my butt sticking out.   He grabbed the long thin paddle and continued to redden my bottom.  Again, I can’t remember how long he spanked me, nor can I remember all of the other implements he used.  I am quite certain that he used the belt again, but I’m not sure if he used his hand or anything else.

Once I had finally been spanked to his satisfaction, he removed my plug and replaced it with his dick.  He fucked my ass very hard and very fast while I was in the same position on the couch.  He exposed my breasts and squeezed them while he fucked me.  He did this for a long time until my punishment was finally complete.  I was still very drunk at that point so my husband held me close in his arms and kissed me deeply.  He told me to go upstairs and wait for him so he could now reward me for being so good during my punishment.  I obeyed.  I went upstairs, removed the remainder of my clothes, and laid on the bed to wait for him.  Only a few moments passed before he was upstairs as well.  He made love to me for a long time and then we both passed out from exhaustion.  I love my husband.

Awesome Anal Action *Discretion Advised 18+*

I haven’t posted about my sex life with my husband on here yet because it isn’t really relevant to Domestic Discipline, however it is relevant to our marriage. So here is a little sex post. Definitely only meant for those 18+ 😉

My husband isn’t the most dominant man in the world. He is dominant, but it doesn’t really come naturally to him. He does it because he knows I need it. I do notice that it is starting to come a bit easier to him and some days he gets into these really dominant moods (which I absolutely LOVE). The other night he came home from work and he was in one of those “moods.”

I was already in bed after putting our daughter down.  Once he was finished eating and showering, he came upstairs and joined me.  We started kissing, which lead to much deeper, passionate kissing.  One thing he does when he is in those dominant moods is he will pull my hair.  I absolutely love to have my hair pulled.  It is similar to spanking in that it instantly humbles me and puts me in ultra submissive mode.  I will pretty much comply with anything he says when he is pulling my hair.  While he was kissing me deeply, he would gather a bunch of my hair in his hand and pull, and then bite my lip or neck.  I also love to be bitten.

He moved his hands all over my body and began to undress me.  He started with my tank top and bra (yes, I sleep in my bra).  He began playing with my breasts.  Licking, sucking, and tweaking my nipples.  He is always careful when sucking on my nipples not to suck to hard or for too long because I am still nursing my 4 month old daughter.  Some people are into that, he isn’t.  He kissed, bit, and sucked on my neck and then down my abdomen.

“Roll over,” was all he said.  Without a word, I obeyed.  He got up and did some digging in our “naughty drawer.” Lol

He pulled out the lube, so I had a pretty good idea of what was coming.

“I want to fuck you in the ass,” he said.

Some women really dread anything going in their bottom, especially anal sex.  Not me.  I LOVE anal, so whenever he wants to fuck me in the ass I get very excited.

He pulled down my panties and applied some lube to my bottom and then to his dick.  We ran out of our regular plain lube and all we had left was the warming sensation or the cooling sensation.  He chose the cooling sensation because he already knew that the warming sensation lube burns when applied to my bottom.  Once he entered my bottom the lube did start to burn a little, though not quite as badly as the warming sensation.  I fought through it and the initial pain and discomfort of the insertion.  He moved slowly so he didn’t hurt me too badly and I was able to get used to his width.  After a few minutes he was able to slide in all the way and it felt amazing.

With in minutes he was fucking me harder than he has ever anally fucked me before.  He was pulling my hair at the same time and telling me what a bad girl I have been.  That’s another thing that really gets the *ahem*. . .juices flowing 🙂  I love being told I am a bad girl.  He told me I was a “bad girl” and “needed to take my punishment.”  This was all in play, of course, he would never use sex to punish me.

This was probably the best anal sex we have ever had.  He nearly brought me to orgasm and I have never even orgasmed from vaginal intercourse.  *Sigh* I love his dominant moods.

The Difference Between Sex and Punishment

I like to keep punishment and sex separate. Does it turn me on to be punished? Yes. Does it turn my husband on to punish me? As far as I know. However, there is a difference. I like the thought of being punished more so than I like the actual thing. Spanking is painful and humiliating. It hurts, I squirm, its humiliating and I feel like a bad, little girl when it happens. The same goes for the other types of punishments I have mentioned; enemas, corner time, suppositories, etc. They are all unpleasant enough to put me in my place when my husbands feels that he needs to use them. That is the purpose of punishment, isn’t it? To make you feel bad about the behavior you have displayed so that you are less likely to do it again? To give you something to negative to remember that you associate with such behavior? I am sure we are both turned on to a degree each time he has to punish me, just the way it is, but we don’t have sex afterwards. We don’t act on those feelings at all. Just wanted to clarify that because I have said several times in the past that the punishments are a turn on for me. I didn’t want anyone to think that makes the punishments any less effective.