The Life of a Submissive

The life of a submissive isn’t always an easy one.  It might sound easy to have someone guiding you through life, but it’s not.  It is very difficult trusting your life in some other person’s hands; trusting them to know what is right for you and make decisions in your best interests.  It is difficult to let go of control and give it to someone else and trust them with it.  It takes practice.  It takes conscious decisions.  It takes. . .balls.

To listen and obey.

To trust.

To relinquish.

It’s not easy.  Then to be punished.  That’s a whole different ball game.

To trust someone to punish you for misbehaving and not to take it too far, or push you too far beyond your limits.

To accept that you have done something wrong and know you will be disciplined for it.

Knowing it will hurt.

It takes a strong person to be a submissive.  It takes a lot of love, trust, and the big one. . .communication.

The life of a submissive isn’t an easy one, but I think for most of us we wouldn’t have it any other way.  It is our devotion to our Dom(me)s, Daddys/Mommys, Husbands/Wifes, Masters/Mistresses and HoHs that drive us to want to be better and be the best submissive we can be.   If we didn’t love them unconditionally we wouldn’t be so willing to submit.

The life of a Submissive. . .I can’t even imagine the life of a Dominant.

Awesome Anal Action *Discretion Advised 18+*

I haven’t posted about my sex life with my husband on here yet because it isn’t really relevant to Domestic Discipline, however it is relevant to our marriage. So here is a little sex post. Definitely only meant for those 18+ 😉

My husband isn’t the most dominant man in the world. He is dominant, but it doesn’t really come naturally to him. He does it because he knows I need it. I do notice that it is starting to come a bit easier to him and some days he gets into these really dominant moods (which I absolutely LOVE). The other night he came home from work and he was in one of those “moods.”

I was already in bed after putting our daughter down.  Once he was finished eating and showering, he came upstairs and joined me.  We started kissing, which lead to much deeper, passionate kissing.  One thing he does when he is in those dominant moods is he will pull my hair.  I absolutely love to have my hair pulled.  It is similar to spanking in that it instantly humbles me and puts me in ultra submissive mode.  I will pretty much comply with anything he says when he is pulling my hair.  While he was kissing me deeply, he would gather a bunch of my hair in his hand and pull, and then bite my lip or neck.  I also love to be bitten.

He moved his hands all over my body and began to undress me.  He started with my tank top and bra (yes, I sleep in my bra).  He began playing with my breasts.  Licking, sucking, and tweaking my nipples.  He is always careful when sucking on my nipples not to suck to hard or for too long because I am still nursing my 4 month old daughter.  Some people are into that, he isn’t.  He kissed, bit, and sucked on my neck and then down my abdomen.

“Roll over,” was all he said.  Without a word, I obeyed.  He got up and did some digging in our “naughty drawer.” Lol

He pulled out the lube, so I had a pretty good idea of what was coming.

“I want to fuck you in the ass,” he said.

Some women really dread anything going in their bottom, especially anal sex.  Not me.  I LOVE anal, so whenever he wants to fuck me in the ass I get very excited.

He pulled down my panties and applied some lube to my bottom and then to his dick.  We ran out of our regular plain lube and all we had left was the warming sensation or the cooling sensation.  He chose the cooling sensation because he already knew that the warming sensation lube burns when applied to my bottom.  Once he entered my bottom the lube did start to burn a little, though not quite as badly as the warming sensation.  I fought through it and the initial pain and discomfort of the insertion.  He moved slowly so he didn’t hurt me too badly and I was able to get used to his width.  After a few minutes he was able to slide in all the way and it felt amazing.

With in minutes he was fucking me harder than he has ever anally fucked me before.  He was pulling my hair at the same time and telling me what a bad girl I have been.  That’s another thing that really gets the *ahem*. . .juices flowing 🙂  I love being told I am a bad girl.  He told me I was a “bad girl” and “needed to take my punishment.”  This was all in play, of course, he would never use sex to punish me.

This was probably the best anal sex we have ever had.  He nearly brought me to orgasm and I have never even orgasmed from vaginal intercourse.  *Sigh* I love his dominant moods.