Bills

Well I managed to get myself into trouble again, big surprise. 
My husband gets paid on Fridays and this past payday he asked me to pay one of our bills that day instead of on Tuesday and I agreed.  Well, I was incredibly busy over the weekend and have had a lot on my mind.  Needless to say, I forgot and when my husband got home from work last night, the bill still wasn’t paid. 
We had a busy evening taking care of our daughter, having dinner with my in laws, etc. So he wasn’t able to punish me until after we put our daughter to bed.  I was severely spanked with his hand, belt, and plastic hanger and I still have red welts rippling over my bottom.

He started with his hand, and at first I thought it might be a playful spanking rather than a punishment spanking based on how he was touching and rubbing me.  Just as I was beginning to relax he started to come down hard on my bottom.  After a few swats with his hand, he started with his belt, and then the hanger.  The hanger was the worst this time!  I think he was enjoying the quiet whoosh sound the hanger made before connecting with my already sore bottom. 

He didn’t make me cry, but he was close.  I was a very sorry girl with a very sore bottom.  Then, he made me stand in the corner with my bottom showing for 10 minutes.  I definitely learned my lesson and got online first thing this morning and paid the bill. 

He keeps telling me that he “can’t wait until we move into our own house” so he can “really spank my ass.”  What has he been doing all along? 

Spanking in Silence

I know I have said this a lot lately, but my husband and I really have been very busy.  From my husband’s new job, the baby, our new house, our anniversary trip next week, I picked up a sales job, etc., we really haven’t had any time at all for our Domestic Discipline relationship.  Well last night my husband improvised and may have come to a solution.

Last night, I was at a practice Mary Kay party so that my cousin can get back into the groove of selling.  My husband got out of work around 8:30 and picked my daughter and me up at around 9.  From there we went home and got ready for bed.  While we were in bed talking about our day my husband told me to go to the closet and pick out a hanger.  I already had a good idea of what he had in mind because I was the one that had told him a very long time ago that plastic hangers are wonderful for nearly-silent spankings.  So I went to the closet and picked out a pretty pink hanger.  When I came back to bed he told me to “get into position.”  I really didn’t know what position he wanted me in so I had to ask.  He had me bury my face in my pillow and stick my bottom up in the air.

I would like to point out that I hadn’t done anything wrong that warranted a spanking, this was just a maintenance spanking.  I would also like to say that I was a little concerned because the hanger is silent, but I am not.  Our daughter’s crib is in our room and only a few feet away from our bed and I didn’t want to wake her up (especially because she is 5 and a half months old and still wakes up every 2 hours at night).

My husband almost never spanks me over my panties, but he did this time. . .well, started that way and he wasn’t taking it easy on me.  He would spank me very quickly all over my bottom and it was very difficult for me to not whine, whimper, and cry out like I normally do.  Instead I breathed heavily and more or less ate my pillow 😛  I didn’t even want to squirm too much because I didn’t want the bed to make noises and wake our daughter up.  I suppose this is a great way for me to learn to take my spankings better, but it wasn’t easy!

After a few minutes of spanking me over my panties, he pulled them completely off and continued to spank my bottom with the pretty-pink-plastic-hanger.  Maybe it was just because there was no longer anything protecting my bottom from the sting of the plastic, but I believe he started to spank me even harder after my panties were removed.   It took all that I had not to squirm and whine while he made my bottom match the pink hanger.   The spanking was short, probably only 5-7 minutes in duration, but plastic hangers sting something awful!

Once he was finished, he had me stand in the corner and he told me not to turn around.  I had to stand there for 5 minutes while he admired his work and I am pretty sure I could hear him masturbating behind me, but I wasn’t allowed to look and see.  When I was finally able to return to bed he held me and kissed me and then made everything all better 😉  I am pretty sure we will be using this spanking method more in the future.

Spanking V & VI

I’m not sure if I mentioned this or not, but my husband just recently got a new job and he has been extremely busy. He was working about 48 hours a week at night, now he is working about 60-70 hours, 6 days a week, and he is now working days. I think I am actually having a harder time adjusting to this than he is. I pretty much only see him at bedtime and on Sundays. I miss him terribly 😦

Needless to say, he hasn’t had a lot of time to spank me lately, not that I have deserved it either O;). The last couple of days my husband has had off because the man that has been training him took a few days for vacation.

Since he had some time off, my husband decided I was well overdue for a spanking and so far this weekend he has spanked me not once, but twice.

The first time, he ordered me upstairs into our bedroom while he grabbed my hairbrush. I tried talking my way out of it, but it wasn’t happening. He had me get on all fours on our bed and he pulled down my shorts and panties. He gave me a warm up with his hand, which wasn’t much of a warm up because he doesn’t know his own strength. Once my bottom was nice and warm he switched to the hairbrush and went to town. He had to pin me down on the bed to get me to stop squirming, I just can’t sit still while my bottom is being spanked.  He usually alternates back and forth between sides, but every now and then he will hit the same spot two or three times in rapid succession and that really gets me squirming and whining.

He switched back and forth between his hand and the hairbrush a few times and then he was finally finished. . .well, for that day anyway.  It’s not too often that I get spanked severely two days in a row because I am usually well behaved for at least a couple days after I am punished. This was one of those occasions where I got spanked in two consecutive days. The second time always hurts so much more and my husband even made a comment that my bottom was still red from the first spanking.

The second spanking was quite a bit worse than the first and it wasn’t because I had just been spanked the day before. Once again he started with his hand and then the hairbrush. He spanked me quite hard with both and alternated a couple times until my bottom was glowing red and was hot to the touch. Then he had me stand in the corner so I figured he was finished, but he wasn’t. He had me get back on the bed on all fours and spanked me a bit more with his hand and then he grabbed one of the plastic hangers from my closet. If you have ever been spanked with a plastic hanger you know how much it stings and it left welts all over my bottom. Once he thought I had had enough of the hanger, he had one more surprise for me. He decided it was time I had a suppository for punishment. We had talked about it many times before, but have not yet tried it. He knows how nervous and embarrassed it makes me feel just from the suggestion of a suppository so I was already blushing and uncomfortable.

He had me lay face down on the bed while he got the suppository and lube. I turned my head to look back at him and with a smirk he asked if I was ready. All I could do was bury my face in a pillow and try to hide my embarrassment. He had me reach behind and spread my bottom open so he had access. He first applied lube to make it easier for him to push his finger inside. He used the warming sensation lube so it felt. . .funny. Then he slowly inserted the suppository. I think he wanted me to feel it going all the way in. Then my punishment was finally over.

My husband laid beside me and asked if I thought that would help me to remember to behave. I nodded and blushed. Then my husband held me tight and told me he loves me.

My First Time: Paddle Spanking From My Husband

So today has not been a very good day for my bottom. I got the spanking my husband has been warning me about, and it was quite the spanking. It seems that whenever my husband warns me that I am going to get “the spanking of my life” he introduces a new implement. . .this time it was the paddle. I have been paddled only once before, and not by my husband. Boy, does that sting! I can’t call this a maintenance spanking because, in my opinion, a maintenance spanking occurs when you have been well behaved and just need a reminder to keep up the good behavior. This was more of a spanking for all of the little things I’ve done lately that haven’t warranted a spanking, but combined warranted a good, long spanking. . .and that’s just what I got!
My husband gathered the paddle and the hairbrush and lead me into the living room. He had me bend over the couch with my knees on the seat and my elbows on the back. Then he pulled down my shorts and panties. There was no warm up or anything, he started right in with the paddle. It was a long and thin wooden paddle that reached across my entire bottom. It stung so badly. Each time I tried to cover my bottom he would hit my hand with the paddle, and that hurt quite badly too! I can’t tell you how many times he spanked me with that implement or how long he spanked me for. All I can say is that it hurt and I was begging him to stop by the time he set it down. Then he picked up the hairbrush. Without a pause he began spanking me with that, alternating cheeks. He covered my bottom with spanks with the hairbrush. I was squirming all over the place and swearing that I would never misbehave again. When he set that down, I thought he was finished and I took a sigh of relief, but boy, was I wrong. Then he began spanking me with his hand. My husband has a very big, heavy hand and he knows how to use it. After a few minutes of that he ordered me into the corner. He sat on the couch admiring my red bottom while I stood there. He told me this was only a break, and that I wasn’t done. He was watching the clock, I think I was in the corner for about 10 minutes, though he didn’t say. This time he had me get over his lap. He held me across the waist with his left hand while he spanked me with his right. He started with the paddle again which stung and made me squeal with each strike. It is almost as bad as the wooden spoon which is my sworn enemy. Then he spanked me again with the hairbrush. The entire ordeal took about a half hour. I was quite the sore, sorry, little girl. He hugged and kissed me after it was all over and I felt better, but I have to say, it hurts to be sitting here writing right now! I can’t say that I didn’t deserve that punishment. I haven’t exactly been the most obedient wife lately, and I have been quite argumentative. I think I will have a sore bottom for a while to remind me to behave.

My Punishments: Part 1

As I have said in previous posts, I am slowly introducing my husband to more and different forms of punishment. We started out with spanking, normal hand spanking, and we have added implements, corner time, and anal training. My husband gets to choose what punishment he will use and it is supposed to be based on the severity of the crime or how many times I have repeated the same offense.

The punishments he currently chooses from are:
Corner time
Insertion of butt plug (usually in addition to a spanking and/or corner time. He may also make me wear one in public)
Spanking: Currently the only way he can spank me is if I’m on all fours on the bed, or bent over something because I am pregnant. Though after I have the baby, we have discussed that he will mostly switch to OTK spankings. I am always spanked on the bare bottom. He also can choose from an array of implements such as: his hand, wooden spoon, spatula, hairbrush, belt, hanger, etc. I was so proud when he wanted to go pick out a hairbrush he could use for spanking me, it became his favorite. He may also choose to spank me more than once a day or daily over a certain amount of time.

Depending on the crime, he may combine any of these punishments. Sometimes he will use more than one implement, others he will incorporate more than one type of punishment. We plan on expanding on these, but I want him to fully master spanking, the role he is supposed to play while punishing me, and become fully comfortable with it before we move on to other things. As always, imput is greatly appreciated 🙂