Happy Father’s Day

With Father’s Day fast approaching I would like to wish all of the Daddy’s out there a Happy Father’s Day, especially to the most amazing husband and father in my life. This will be my husband’s first Father’s Day. We found out I was pregnant the day after Father’s Day last year.

My husband is an amazing father and a great man. No matter what he does, my daughter and I always come first. He works hard everyday so that I am able to stay home and take care of her and he can give us everything that we want and need. He is a very kind, gentle, and loving man with a huge heart. Not a day goes by that he doesn’t make me smile and laugh.

He takes lots of time with his daughter, you can see in his eyes how much he loves her. When she was born he hovered over her every second. He never left our side. From day one, he has been the best Daddy I could ever wish to have for my little girl. He took care of me while I was pregnant, always making sure I was happy and comfortable. While I was in the hospital he did everything he could to make me feel better and make sure I had the best experience possible. He always put my wants and needs before his own. Then, on that amazing day she was born, both of our lives changed for the better.

I watched my husband transition from a young man to a father, and it was a beautiful thing to witness. The first time he held her, he cried. I’ve never seen such wonder and amazement on his face. He changed nearly every diaper while we were in the hospital and barely let me hold her because he was so attached.

Everyday he goes to work so that we can give our daughter the best life possible. When he comes home, he helps me with the baby and spends time with us. He even takes the time to make sure I am well behaved and reaching my goals and takes care of it when I’m not. It takes a very strong man to punish a grown woman without taking it too far. He punishes me because he loves me and knows I need it, not because he enjoys hurting me.

My daughter and I are extremely fortunate to have such a strong, loving, and attentive man in our lives. We got him some very nice gifts for Father’s day and we are going to make sure to spoil him rotten. He may not have been a Daddy for very long, but he is the best Daddy there is. ❤

4 thoughts on “Happy Father’s Day

  1. Kenzie says:

    I just found your blog and i’m so glad I did! My husband and I are in our twenties as well, and like you, I brought DD up to him. He was a bit reluctant at first, and it took a lot of ups and downs, but lately it’s been going pretty well. Basically, I can relate to a lot of what you write about. Also, I noticed you’re from NY – we’re from CT. 🙂

    Feel free to email me sometime ddcouple26@gmail.com 🙂

    • xotheladyxo says:

      Congratulations on convincing your husband, I know it can be difficult sometimes! When you make it work though, it’s great. I love how far my husband has come from refusing to hurt me to now bruising my bottom with his belt. Thank you for the comment, I love it when people can relate to my blog 🙂


  2. mybeahind says:

    They should have a husbands day, too!
    So happy for you.

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