The Difference Between Sex and Punishment


I like to keep punishment and sex separate. Does it turn me on to be punished? Yes. Does it turn my husband on to punish me? As far as I know. However, there is a difference. I like the thought of being punished more so than I like the actual thing. Spanking is painful and humiliating. It hurts, I squirm, its humiliating and I feel like a bad, little girl when it happens. The same goes for the other types of punishments I have mentioned; enemas, corner time, suppositories, etc. They are all unpleasant enough to put me in my place when my husbands feels that he needs to use them. That is the purpose of punishment, isn’t it? To make you feel bad about the behavior you have displayed so that you are less likely to do it again? To give you something to negative to remember that you associate with such behavior? I am sure we are both turned on to a degree each time he has to punish me, just the way it is, but we don’t have sex afterwards. We don’t act on those feelings at all. Just wanted to clarify that because I have said several times in the past that the punishments are a turn on for me. I didn’t want anyone to think that makes the punishments any less effective.

One thought on “The Difference Between Sex and Punishment

  1. Sara says:

    I am sitting here now with a very hot, sore bottom with my HOH looking over my shoulder. I am always punished on a bare bottom but before I am, he lectures me on my offenses as I stand before him. I just feel so little then and want to hide, not from the punishment itself because I know I deserve it but because it is humiliating to be treated like a naughty little child. His thinking is if I am disobedient like a child, I should be punished like one. My panties are pulled down to my ankles and I am either over his lap or over the edge of the bed. He uses his hand to warm me up then a paddle he made. Having my bottom exposed makes me more vunerable and again is embarassing. The paddle is used generously on my my cheeks and upper thighs. I am then made to stand in the corner to contemplate my unfortunate actions that got me in this predicament. After a while, he takes off my panties and either puts me to bed bare bottomed or makes me sit (squirm) to write lines by hand, not on the computer. Today instead of writing lines, he has me writing to you.

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